How to get past the blow off, pass their test, and enter their ranks — “Who the ƒ@%* do they think THEY are!” That’s what I’d usually ask after a failed first meeting with a wise, influential, or hyper-successful leader. I’d hear amazing things about about a person, try reaching out, and get shot down time after time. Worse, they’d discount or trash me in some way. Have you ever felt the same? …